Negotiating the transaction is usually the most complex aspect of buying a home. At the same time, it’s the one that can involve the most creativity and the most impact on the bottom line – i.e. whether you end up with the home and at what price. That’s why it’s important to have an experienced and savvy REALTOR® who has successfully worked through many different transaction scenarios. That said, what follows are a few strategies for negotiating a good deal in a buyer’s market like this one, all of which involve the following key fundamentals:
- presenting yourself as a serious buyer while, at the same time, keeping your emotions in check
- trying to understand and respect the priorities of the seller
- being creative and, where necessary, willing to compromise to get the deal done.
Strike A Balance – Motivated But Not Too Eager
For you, as a buyer in a buyers’ market, it all starts before you even make an offer, the first time you see that home you think might be THE ONE. It’s important that not give yourself away to the listing agent or seller by getting too excited about your “find”. If anything, ask a few questions, maybe take a few notes, and let your REALTOR® do all of the talking. The point is that ideally you’re trying to strike a balance by appearing, on the one hand, to be a qualified, motivated buyer while, on the other hand, not appearing to be too eager. Several ways you can demonstrate you’re a serious buyer:
- Have already sold your present home (if you have one)or make it clear that you’re not dependent upon selling in order to buy
- Make an all-cash offer or show that you’ve been pre-approved for a loan
- Provide an attractive “earnest” deposit with the offer
- Make a reasonable offer that doesnt offend and still gives you room to negotiate your price
Not only will this approach show that you’re qualified and motivated, it will place you in a stronger negotiating position overall. The sellers won’t want to lose you and will be more inclined to reduce their price a little and/or make some concessions with respect to terms.
Understand And Respect The Seller’s Priorities, (aside from getting the highest price)
If, through the negotiations, you can find out more about the seller’s situation – their motivation and priorities – you’ll not only improve your position, but you’ll also be able to resolve any obstacles more creatively and sensitively. For instance, if a seller is adamant about a certain closing date, you might be able to get them to concede some other terms including price. Or if they are skeptical about your ability to obtain a loan in this current mortgage environment, they may value a higher downpayment more heavily and concede on sales price. There are no “one size fits all” approaches to negotiating. In principle, though, the more you know about the seller’s priorities, the more you’ll be able to work with them in order to achieve your own goals. While a home’s sale price is generally the focus of negotiations, often sellers will have needs such that the terms of purchase can significantly influence the final deal. Here are some elements in the purchase agreement that you might put on the table for discussion:
- A larger downpayment (smaller amount to be financed)
- The amount of earnest money deposit you provide
- Closing and Possession Dates
- Inclusion of furniture, fixtures, etc., not considered part of the property
- Payment for repairs required by your lender
- Payment of taxes, utilities and rents
- Payment of title search and insurance
- Payment of survey, transfer taxes and recording fees
- Payment of general and termite inspections
- Payment of attorney’s or escrow fees
The contract delineates these terms clearly, but still should be carefully reviewed and fully understood by both you and the seller so that you’re on the same page and the negotiations move forward.
Will you be sorry if you lose this home? If so, DON’T!
Even in a buyers’ market like this one, if you’re really interested in buying the home you’re negotiating over – if it really is THE ONE – you should be willing to make some compromises to make the deal happen. If that’s not the case, then you should listen to your heart and consider looking for another home.
In summary, the key to successful negotiations is to remember your priorities and respect the seller’s – don’t let small things get in the way of your better judgment, and don’t ascribe nefarious intentions to the sellers’ actions. They are doing exactly what you are doing – negotiating for the terms that are in their best interest.
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